June

By |2023-06-14T20:42:05+00:00June 1st, 2023|Uncategorized|

June is Busting Out All Over.              As I began thinking about the blog for June, a song from Carousel, one of my favorite Rodger and Hammerstein musicals, came into my mind. The song is appropriately, “June is Busting Out All Over.” The song captures the feeling and intensity of June. Here is a snippet of the [...]

Child Care, an Expensive Proposition in Divorce

By |2023-06-15T13:19:25+00:00May 16th, 2023|Child Support|

In a recent divorce case in Staten Island, before Judge Ronald Castorina, Jr. the court made it clear that there is a big difference between child- care costs and maintenance or child support payments.  The court granted the plaintiff wife her request for expenses of child-care for a nanny although the husband argued against it. The husband [...]

Timing Is Everything

By |2023-04-29T16:40:42+00:00May 4th, 2023|Uncategorized|

There was a recent family law support case in Family Court, Nassau County, New York, whereby a father filed a downward modification petition against the mother, alleging his employment changed, along with experiencing a drastic salary reduction, and he sought to reduce his child support obligation for the parties' son.   The court found that the [...]

May

By |2023-04-29T16:32:18+00:00May 1st, 2023|Uncategorized|

May is the fifth month of the year.  The origin of the word is a combination of the Roman goddess, Maia Majesta, who was the goddess of fertility and growth, and the Greek name, Maia, also a goddess and her name meant mother, nurse, or midwife.             As such, May can be viewed as the month of [...]

What Mediation is Not

By |2023-06-15T13:03:41+00:00April 25th, 2023|Uncategorized|

One of my favorite aspects of my practice is acting as a mediator.  I have been a mediator for over 25 years.  I have met with and helped countless couples come to terms with the ending of their relationship or marriage.  With my help they have amicably resolved their differences culminating in an agreement that is fair and [...]

Hope Springs Eternal

By |2023-04-01T12:59:44+00:00April 1st, 2023|Uncategorized|

April is upon us. Where did April get its name from?  April derives its name from the word aperio, meaning open.  This is because plants and buds bloom and open in spring.  April is synonymous with spring, renewal, and rebirth.  The daisy and the sweet pea are the flowers of April and the diamond is the gemstone.  April 1st is April [...]

Lessons Learned

By |2023-06-15T13:24:37+00:00March 29th, 2023|Uncategorized|

Recently, there was an article in the New York Law Journal about how highly stressed lawyers are 22 times more times likely to consider suicide.  It states that lawyers who suffer from perfectionism, self reliance and unflinching commitment to their work are predicted to be more prone to suicidal ideology when pushed too hard. (New York [...]

Can an Agreement Be Overturned for Fraud

By |2023-06-15T13:07:51+00:00March 14th, 2023|Uncategorized|

In a recent case in New York County, Wong v. Wong, 158126-2017 published on November 9 in the New York Law Journal, a husband and a wife entered into a stipulation of settlement to settle their divorce proceeding after the court had conducted a hearing to determine what was marital property and how to distribute it.  The [...]

March

By |2023-03-10T00:30:24+00:00March 1st, 2023|Uncategorized|

March is named for the Roman God of War, Mars.  It was the time of year to resume military campaigns that had been interrupted by winter.  March also brings the first day of spring with the vernal equinox.  We wait with anticipation for signs of spring-buds on the trees, forsythias about to bloom, daffodils and crocuses peaking their [...]

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